DREAM JOB
Spirit Coach #1
Dr. Kathi Ann Middendorf
Spiritually Based Personal and Profession Coach
(919) 363-8244 dr_kathi@msn.com


Dear Spirit Couch,
A friend and I were discussing finding our life's work and she had the following question: "If I come up with my dream job, how can I find it?" Abbie

Dear Abbie,
Her dream job will be a reflection of who she is. It will be a culmination of experiences that she has had to this point in time. So, if I were coaching her directly, I would ask what she loved to do as a child, what she loves to do now, who she likes to spend time with, what her vision for the world is, how she sees her personal mission fulfilling this vision, and what steps she is willing to take to find her dream job. The answer to finding her dream job will not be found in any of the above questions specifically, but will emerge from the mental and spiritual work of fully answering each of the questions.

Her job will be found in places where she would love to be…so where are those places? Her job would be with people she loves to be around…so, who are those people? Her job would be doing a work that does not feel like work…so what does she do that so engages her heart, mind and spirit that time stands still, that there is such a single focus of her attention that the work becomes her entire world for that moment.

My answer to her would be that she will find the work in the outer world only after she has explored her inner world to find what she truly loves and who she truly is. Then this clarity of vision, combined with her intention, attention and action will create an attraction between her and the job so that they will be drawn together in a most natural manner. This process also requires that she be out in the flow of life…not sitting at home waiting for the Universe to bring it to her.



 

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